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Family Ties Newsletter
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Volume 11, No. 1

NEWSLETTER January 2008

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AFFM 2007 Year in Review

 

 As most of our readers know, AFFM has struggled during the last  quarter of this past year. Thank you to all who have and who continue to assist the association as it attempts to rise above the damage created by the embezzlement of nearly half of the yearly finances by a former employee, Katherine Ratliff. It is amazing to see what can happen when people rally to make lemonade out of lemons!

On a more positive note, this past year, AFFM took part in several events across the state honoring foster and adoptive parents and kinship providers. The event at Fort Knox was once again a huge success. Watch for details of the third annual Foster Day at the Fort in the March newsletter. It is always a privilege to pay respect and celebrate those who so generously open their hearts and homes to children in need of a safe and happier place to live.

AFFM has been collecting email addresses of its members. The reason for the email listings is to expedite the disbursement of information as it becomes available. If you have not shared an email address and would like to be on the list serve to get information as it becomes known to AFFM please call or email it to affm.net. This is a good way to learn of proposed legislative changes, training opportunities and much more.

Numerous former youth from the foster care system have been the   recipients of funds to assist them in working towards independence. AFFM is pleased to collaborate with the Jim Casey Youth Opportunities Initiative which provides funds for the youth. These funds are for youth who have exited the foster care system without the benefit of a forever family.

Gift certificates, tickets to Sesame Street Live, state fairs, concerts, a hockey game, over night hotel accommodations, participation in the Discount Card Program, Season Passes to the State Parks, a day pass to the Maine Wildlife Park, roller skating party, training opportunities, and camperships to youth, are samples of the many benefits provided to families throughout the year.

In November and December, AFFM sponsored holiday parties in    Bangor and Portland for kinship families. Additionally, AFFM was  delighted to collaborate with several businesses that generously        provided holiday gifts to many of the children cared for by members of AFFM. Having so many people dig deep to provide for children who might otherwise have had little to celebrate during the holiday season is truly a humbling experience. Thank you to all who added to the        merriment and happiness of children in foster care, adoptive and kinship placements.

AFFM was also the proud recipient of a four year scholarship that will be presented to a foster youth in Southern York County who plans a post secondary education. More information concerning the scholarship will be made available soon.

The Family Ties newsletter is sent to over 3300 addresses. All licensed foster parents; many adoptive families and kinship families receive  Family Ties. It is also sent to all of the DHHS offices as well as many private foster care and adoptive agencies, several legislators, and other child welfare advocates. Feed back for the newsletter is welcomed. AFFM really appreciates reactions and comments from the readers. If readers have ideas on articles that they would like featured in Family Ties, please call Barb Roy at 1-800-833-9786.

Past issues of the Family Ties newsletter can be viewed on the AFFM website, www.affm.net

AFFM is available to assist in starting and maintaining support groups. If you are interested in having a support group in your area please call AFFM at 1-800-833-9786.

Among other services, AFFM provides training opportunities that can be used as part of a support group’s agenda or as a free standing     training. Of particular interest are Day to Day Living with Children with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder and Allegation Prevention and       Protocol.

AFFM’s, 2007 spring conference, “And Some Rise Above It….” was attended by nearly 400 individuals. Thank you to all that took part.

The spring conference 2008, Safe and Sound, Practice Prevention will be held at Verillo’s in Portland, April 11 & 12, 2008. Mark your      calendar, line up child care and check with your agency or DHHS    District to see if there is funding to assist you in attending. The         presenters will delight you, the food will astound you and the            opportunity to share with old and new friends will warm you heart and soul! Please plan to join the many that have shared in the learning, fun and camaraderie of the annual AFFM conference. This year’s theme echoes the Department’s attempt to increase safety for children and families. Key note speaker, Jaiya John, who was a former youth in care,  will share an inspirational and personal account of his need to maintain contact with his biological mother while moving on to another type of permanent family.

Jaiya is a poet, author, psychologist, and the founder of Soul Water   Rising. Be prepared to feel cared for and inspired by his wonderful heartfelt message of hope and compassion.

 Four lucky families were fortunate to spend a week at Tamarack     Cottage in Rangeley this past summer. Reports were wonderful.     Families were generous in leaving a special gift to the cottage and more importantly, families all reported sharing a fun-filled vacation in    Rangeley. Thank you to Mary Higgins, executor of the Wilhelm Reich Infant Trust and to Mary Henderson, Administrative Assistant, for their commitment to make Tamarack available to foster, adoptive and kinship families. AFFM welcomes other camp owners to consider a charitable contribution in the form of a week or more of use at your camp.    Camping is a wonderful way for families to spend quality time together without the usual stress of work, school, television video games, etc. Watch for information in your February edition of Family Ties to learn how you can win a week’s stay at Tamarack Cottage in Rangeley.

AFFM sent out many packets to individuals interested in becoming  foster and/or adoptive parents. Individuals are able to call AFFM to find out about the steps to licensing, etc.

Families interested in adopting or becoming foster parents for a        relative’s child (kinship care) can also call AFFM for information on the process and to become members of the discount program etc.

These are just a few of the highlights of the activities and supports provided by Adoptive and Foster Families of Maine during 2007.  The Board of Directors, staff and director of AFFM looks forward to serving you and yours in 2008. Please call, write or email to share your ideas and concerns with AFFM.

 

 We wish you and yours a happy New Year filled with love, peace and prosperity!

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~Meet Faith~

Faith (DOB 6/96) is a young lady who is described as funny, delightful, creative and quite artistic. Faith enjoys doing things most pre-teen girls her age like to do, such as shopping, wearing jewelry, going to the movies and learning how to cook. She loves to read and also enjoys writing poems and stories.

Faith is a bright child who does very well in school and requires little to no assistance with her school work. Faith says she enjoys school and her favorite subject is reading. She enjoys reading mystery books the most. The Magic Tree House series are some of her favorites. Faith currently does morning track at the school she attends. She also enjoys soccer, tennis and rollerblading.

Faith has asthma and is allergic to animals. Because of the severity of her allergies she would need to be in a pet free home. Faith has two older siblings, who she sees twice a month. These visits would be important for her to be able to maintain in an adoptive home. Faith would benefit greatly from a family that can provide her with a sense of belonging, stability and consistency. With consistent and effective parenting, it is predicted that Faith would absolutely thrive.

Faith is excited and anxious to have a family of her own. She would love to be in a family where there are siblings and the family does “fun stuff”. She says that she would like “a family who chooses her to make sure that they can take care of her.”

Adoption subsidy is available for the most appropriate family. Please contact Michelle Freeman, Portland DHHS, 161 Marginal Way, Portland, Maine, 04101 or by calling (207) 822-2181

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AFFM would like to extend our gratitude once again to the sponsors of our Kinship Holiday Gift Program.

Over 300 children benefited this year from the generosity of the following committees and businesses:
The Spirit of Giving Committee
Unicel
Shaw’s (Main Street, Bangor)
United Bikers of Maine
Central Maine Harley Davidson
Best Buy (Bangor)

We would also like to acknowledge the wonderful people at our 7 pick up locations. The weather did it’s best to hamper our deliveries, but these sites were very accommodating in their efforts to “play Santa”, and we appreciate their time and flexibility.

Those wishing to extend a thanks to any of our donors can do so by sending a note or pictures to
AFFM
294 Center Street, Suite 1
Old Town, Maine, 04468.

We will make sure your note is directed to the appropriate group.

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DHHS Proposes Standardization of Treatment Foster Care
By Dan Despard

As part of a package of initiatives designed to streamline government services, the DHHS has put forth a plan that will standardize the rate paid to treatment foster care agencies as well as the specific services provided by these agencies. The current system of treatment foster care in Maine lacks uniformity. The daily Private Non-Medical Institution (PNMI) rate paid to the treatment foster care agencies varies significantly, with the lowest paid agency receiving a rate of $89.25 and the highest, a rate of $156.62. It is important to note that this is not the reimbursement rate paid to foster parents, rather the rate paid to the agencies to cover their costs of providing the service. Currently, four agencies employ clinicians who provide individual counseling to the foster children they serve. This primarily accounts for the higher rate they receive. The remaining six agencies do not employ clinicians to provide individual counseling and they receive a much lower rate. In reviewing the quality of services and outcomes across treatment foster care agencies the Office of Child and Family Services is satisfied with the level of services being provided by the agencies that currently do not include individual counseling within their PNMI budgets. We have listened to youth in care who have expressed a desire to have voice and choice in whether they receive counseling, which provider they work with, and how long it will continue. Allowing clients to choose from the wide range of community based providers will assure that our clients receive the right treatment for the right duration. Standardizing the service assures that all clients receive the same quality of service as determined by their level of care needs, no matter which agency serves them. It also allows for consistent measurement of agencies’ performance. As a first step in determining a standard rate, the rates of the six agencies that don’t include individual counseling within their PNMI costs were averaged, resulting in a rate of $95.27. Treatment foster care agency heads have raised issues regarding the methodology of reaching a standard rate. For example, some agencies contend that the level of in-home supports as well as transportation costs account for the higher rates they receive. OCFS staff have been meeting with members of the Maine chapter of the Foster Family Treatment Association to refine that methodology. In addition, uniform performance standards will be developed and implemented through the contracts with all treatment foster care agencies. These performance standards will be modeled after those that have been proven nationally to result in improved well-being and permanency outcomes. The Office of Child and Family Services believes that all children who need to enter treatment foster care deserve to be kept in close proximity to their home community and receive the same quality of services regardless of where he or she lives in the State. This plan is intended to make that belief a reality.

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The Opportunity Passport™ program will soon be part of Jobs for Maine’s Graduates

What Has Been Happening?
A Transition Team of JMG and Muskie staff has been working together for several months to make the transition of Opportunity Passport™ to JMG a reality by May 2008.

Who Are the New Staff?
JMG has specialists in 52+ sites around the state – middle and high schools, juvenile detention centers, and a homeless shelter. In addition, JMG has hired two Opportunity Passport™ staff: Carlo Bufano is now the Opportunity Passport™ Program Manager; 207-620-7180, ext 205;
cbufano@jmg.org. Debbie Bechard is now the Opportunity Passport™ Program Coordinator; 207-620-7180, ext 212; dbechard@jmg.org. These staff will oversee implementation and will work with the JMG specialists to make sure that youth are trained in financial literacy, enrolled in the Opportunity Passport™, and are able to make asset purchases.

What Will Be the Enrollment Process During This Transition Year?
JMG will enroll 75 new youth this year; by May 2008, they will also take over the maintenance of the current participants. This transition will be a gradual process over the year, accomplished regionally.

How Will Youth Who are Not in School be Enrolled?
Carlo and Debbie will work with the current youth in the program, whether or not they are in middle/high school or the JMG program. As new youth are referred/enrolled into the Opportunity Passport™, JMG specialists and Carlo/Debbie will train and enroll these youth. The logistics of where financial literacy training will be held and how youth outside of school will be enrolled will be worked out during this transition period.

What Are the Changes to the Program?
As we transition this program to JMG, it is important to make sure we have participants who are truly interested in the matched savings program and can put plans in place to maximize their success in meeting their savings goals. Youth will need to sign and be expected to adhere to a savings agreement for each calendar year they participate.

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Budget News from the State


Unfortunately all departments in state government have had to take steps to address the financial deficit of the state budget. State departments and agencies were assigned reduction targets. Each department or agency presented options and program impact analyses to meet the targets. The proposed reductions were evaluated based on a number of factors, including the effects on public health and safety, the extent that the impact could be minimized and whether the proposal followed the intent of the Legislature.
Governor Baldacci has stated, “Until the supplemental budget is passed, the curtailment will ensure our spending doesn’t exceed our revenues,” Governor Baldacci said. “Right now, we have more money going out the door than we have coming in. That can’t continue. We must live within our means.”

The Office of Child and Family Services, and more specifically the Division of Child Welfare was asked to make very difficult decisions to identify where savings could be achieved with the least amount of impact or harm on the children and families we serve. The following are those budget items that will be enacted but, as we fully recognize, will have an impact on foster, adoptive, kinship, and permanency guardianship families. We regret this impact, but there is logical and fiscal sense to them as well.

We will follow MaineCare rules in the authorization of psychological evaluations reducing authorized time to 4 hours. This initiative will result in consistency in hours of service available to all members, without regard to thie MaineCare/non-MaineCare eligibility status.

There will be a review of all clinical services authorized for children and families in the child welfare system. Determinations will be made as to whether the service is being provided by someone with the correct licensure and credentials as well as skill and knowledge in the need area. Increased use of utilization review will result in more use of evidenced based treatments and accountability. Services will only be authorized in compliance with MaineCare standards which direct number of hours and duration of services.

We will now need to disallow child care payment for children for all birth and resource families that are not employed, engaged in an employment program or where there is no clinical need for a specialized child care setting.

The $2.00 per day recreational fund to Treatment Foster Care agencies will be re-allocated and caseworkers will be responsible for recreation funding. This will promote the use of the funds for the specific needs of the child that will promote healthy behaviors and recognize the benefits of recreational activities.

The Department will no longer be able to authorize double reimbursement for room and board care of children in foster care when a child is being cared for in a respite placement. Direct reimbursement to respite providers from DHHS will end and providers who wish to utilize respite will reimburse the respite provider directly from funds they receive for board and care as the primary provider. Caseworkers will need to be notified as they continue to need to know the placement for safety and emergency purposes. Federal rule only allows payment to one provider at a time and we have been in compliance with that by only using state funds to cover respite. We can no longer afford this.

There will be reductions in the funds for contracted agencies that do supervised visitation for children in state custody. This initiative is in line with our own efforts to normalize visitation and have caseworkers, family members, and foster parents more active in visitation.

We will begin reviewing service use immediately, however, the effective date of the changes to child care, recreational funds, and respite will be effective February 1, 2007.

Virginia Marriner
Director, Child Welfare Policy and Practice, DHHS OCFS

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Stanley and Myra Pelletier of St. Francis proudly announce the adoption of their 11 year-old son, Thorne Stanley Pelletier November 28,2007. Thorne joins his family members, 33 year-old sister, Tonia, 31 year-old brother, Kevin, 21 year-old sister, Reggie, 20 year-old sister, Mariya, 16 year-old, Brittany, and 15 year-old sister, Shelby, Thorne is also an uncle to Brinn, 4 years old

 

Lou and Pamela Sullivan of LisbonFalls, are proud to announce the two additions to their family :
Kassidi Ann Sullivan (3)
and
Katryna Lucille Sullivan (2) August 28, 2007.
“We are very blessed to be their forever parents.”

Tom and Louise Jehnings

Are thrilled to welcome

 

Emily Grace (2)

 

Dec. 18th.

Emily is also welcomed by Jennifer, Timothy, Nichole, Damon, and Laya

Louis and Shelly Brown are delighted to announce that on Oct. 17th, 2007, their family welcomed
Hannah Jean
And
Autumn Marie.

Hannah and Autumn were also welcomed by their sisters, Ashly-rose and Abigail

If your family has celebrated an adoption that you would like to see announced, please email the information to Barbara@affm.net

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AFFM update:

Katherine Ratliff, former Administrative Assistant at AFFM, plead no contest on December 27th to the charge of theft by unauthorized taking, in the amount of $83,500. She was sentenced to 6 years in prison, with all but 18 months suspended, will be placed on 2 years, probation, and has been ordered to pay $10,000 restitution.

AFFM is very appreciative of all the cards, well wishes and donations that we have received as the recovery effort continues. The AFFM Board of Directors is asking everyone on our mailing list to consider a one time donation of $10.00. The amount generated by this, combined with the proceeds from the sale of the items seized from Katherine, will be a tremendous help in our recovery effort.

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Send us you receipts!
We are still collecting receipts from Shaw’s Supermarkets!
Shaw’s has graciously agreed to donate 1% of total receipts collected to AFFM. Please send your original receipts to:
Adoptive and Foster Families of Maine, Inc
294 Center Street, Suite 1
Old Town, Maine 04468
This campaign is ongoing, so keep them coming!
Receipts cannot be returned

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Maine Parent Federation and the G.E.A.R. Parent Network collaboratively present: “An Update on the New Special Education Regulations” Guest Speaker: Elizabeth Collins, MPF Come on board as we maneuver through the maze of recent changes in the current Special Education Regulations. Come and explore with us the ABC’s and learn the 3 R’s. Discover how to ensure your participation in meetings that address desired educational outcomes. Gain knowledge of strategies for making the most of the Individualized Education Program (IEP) or Individual Family Service Plan (IFSP) meetings. We invite you to bring your insights and questions to this vital workshop. Date: Wednesday February 13, 2008 from 6:30-8:30 p.m Location: CMMC conference room at 12 High St in Lewiston To register, or to get more info, please call 1-800-264-9224

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Safe and Sound: Practice Prevention
Adoptive and Foster Families of Maine’s

2008 Annual Conference
April 11th and 12th
Verillo’s, Portland,Maine


 

Featuring keynote speaker:
JAIYA JOHN Author of Writer’s Digest Award-Winning Memoir
BLACK BABY WHITE HANDS: A VIEW FROM THE CRIB


Jaiya John is the founder and Executive Director of Soul Water Rising, a human relations mission devoted to compassion and understanding—two of humankind’s most challenging achievements. Since 1990 he has served as a professional speaker, consultant, poet, author, and youth mentor. Jaiya’s passionate, poetic presentations combine spiritual and social science insights. He has addressed thousands of youth and adults internationally, always with the intent of stirring the soul to remember itself. This work is truly his mission, ministry, and life. He has authored the award-winning memoir, Black Baby White Hands: A View from the Crib, and Reflection Pond, a meditation on identity, culture, and healing in children separated from original family. Jaiya was a professor of social psychology at Howard University (1995-1998) and served as associate director for the National Center on Permanency for African American Children (1999-2001).

 

Recent Changes Affecting Foster and Adoptive Resource Families

Chapter 16 Rules Providing for the Licensing of Family Foster Homes for Children and its Addendum, Chapter 15 Rules Providing for the Licensing of Specialized Children’s Foster Homes has been amended through the rule –making process. The amended rules became effective December 3, 2007. Changes in the rules include requirement that foster parents shall participate in ongoing training of at least 18 hours for the licensees’ combined hours of training, with at least 6 of those hours completed by the secondary parent, if applicable, within the two year licensing period. For foster parents holding a specialized license, the amended rules require that foster parents participate in ongoing training of at least 36 hours for the licensees’ combined hours of training, with at minimum of at least 12 of those hours completed by the secondary foster parent if applicable, within the two year licensing period. Foster parents, regardless of which rules were in effect at the time their license was issued, will adhere to these new training hour requirements at the time of their next renewal. At the time of renewal, the licensing worker will provide the resource family with a list of required training and of approved training options.

The revised rules also add a new provision requiring foster parents who transport children in their own vehicles to comply with all State of Maine laws governing motor vehicle operation, including showing evidence of current driver license, vehicle registration, inspection, insurance, and use of age–appropriate passenger restraint systems.

In addition to rule changes, there are several changes being made in Child Welfare practice which will enhance services provided to children. Among these changes is the requirement for an annual update of the resource family home study. The update will involve resource family participation in the evaluation of provision of safety and well being for children placed in the home, as well as evaluation of resource family strengths and challenges, and will identify a plan to support the individual family during the coming year with addressing areas that present challenges.

Resource families will be provided with information about preparations to take, in the event of a natural or man-made disaster. They will be assisted in development of a Resource Family Disaster Plan, which will include instructions on following the Department’s protocol in the event of a natural or man-made disaster.

Additionally, resource families will be asked to sign an agreement in which the resource parents agree to refrain from the use of corporal or other demeaning forms of punishment. This agreement will be signed as part of the application process, as well as signed as part of the renewal licensing and adoption approval process.

Child Welfare staff will be discussing these changes with resource families and working with families in an effort to continuously improve the quality of support offered to resource families as they, in turn, meet the day-to-day safety and well being needs of children placed in their care.

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Coats for Kids

If anyone knows of a child/teen still in need of a winter coat, please call the AFFM office at 1-800-833-9786. We still have some coats available.

Supply is limited, but we will do our best to meet every need.


FAMILY TIES the Newsletter of Adoptive & Foster Families of Maine, Inc.

Published with support from : the Maine Dept. of Human Services

Please direct comments to:
Editor, Family Ties
Adoptive & Foster Families of Maine
294 Center Street, Unit 1
Old Town, ME 04468.

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Adoptive & Foster Families of Maine, Inc. 294 Center Street, Unit 1, Old Town, ME 04468
Phone: 800-833-9786 or 207-827-2331 Fax: 207-827-1974 Email: info@affm.net

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