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Volume 9, No. 9

NEWSLETTER

September 2006

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Organization says Subsidies Are Crucial

The Children's Rights advocacy organization for children has issued a report summarizing the results presented in a study of six states that offer child subsidies to adoptive and prospective-adoptive parents from the foster care system. This report was created in association with the North American Council on Adoptable Children (NACAC), and funded by Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption. The report was released in July 2006 examining the importance of child subsidies when adopting from the foster care. These subsidies are vital to the decision making of a prospective-adoptive family desiring to adopt a child with special needs.

Because certain states are having financial woes they are reducing adoption subsidies. Children's Rights filed a lawsuit against the state of Missouri for making a law restricting adoptive families to access to funding to one year. A federal court had this law struck down after finding it to be a violation of federal law and unconstitutional. Since 2001 twenty-six states have reduced child subsidies because of experiencing budgetary crises.

There are many benefits in adopting a child out of the foster care system and doing so provides an important service to the state government. Such a voluntary action on the part of adoptive parents should be considered an investment. Adoption creates permanent homes for children in the foster care system. This relieves the greater burden from the child, the foster care system and the state. It additionally strengthens the family which is the bedrock of society.

To fail a child at an early stage of development can have lasting and damaging effects on the child, and to their community. Without fiscal vision and planning a greater burden will be placed on all areas of the community up to the state level.

Children who are "aged-out" of foster care are prone to have more difficult problems, such as, not graduating from high school or acquiring a GED, unemployment, unwanted pregnancies, suffering mental illness, and incarceration.

Julie Farber, Children's Rights' director of policy has stated. "Adequate adoption subsidies are critical to parents' ability to adopt vulnerable children from foster care."

Most foster children have special needs, such as, birth defects, attachment issues, and emotional or behavioral problems. Those follow a child into adoption. By reducing the monthly payment assistance for a special needs child or children, systems may put an adoptive family at financial risk. Families do not adopt children to add a financial resource, however, subsidies help assist the adoptive parents to care for children who have extraordinary needs.

Fortunately, for Maine's adoptive parents, adoption subsidies remain consistent with the foster care reimbursement rates.

The Survey Demographics

Children's Right developed the survey using a total of 242 adoptive and prospective adoptive parents caring for 670 adoptive and pre-adoptive children, and conducted the study in Illinois, Kentucky, Minnesota, Missouri, Oregon, and Texas.

According to this survey, 98% of the participants were foster parents before adopting. Others were at the initial stages of the adoption process. Also included were numerous "therapeutic" foster care givers.

One of the most important findings was that for families in these states reimbursements were higher before the care givers became adoptive parents.

A few of the questions that families ask when deciding to adopt a special needs child in foster care are: Will we receive a medical card, i.e. Medicaid? What are the levels of services covered by medical insurance? What is the availability of adoption subsidies? And, how can we access to information about the child's and the biological families medical history?

According to the survey, 65% of adoptive families site the availability and/or the level of the subsidy available as being sufficient to allow them to incur the greater financial responsibility required by the adoption process. For the prospective-adoptive families, 45% stated that only with the subsidy would they be able to continue with the adoption.

The simple yet economic truth in human terms is that sound policy making is the foundation for developing positive outcomes through adoption.

You are encouraged to read the full report "Ending the Foster Care Life Sentence: The Critical Need for Adoption Subsidies", which can be found at www.childrensrights.org.

New England Foster Care Association

Please join foster, adoptive and kinship providers from all over New England for the New England Foster Parent Association Conference.

Title: Gateways to Permanency
Where: Sheraton Hotel, Nashua, New Hampshire
When: September 20-22

Watch your mail for a conference registration packet.

Free Monthly Training Sessions

"Open To All Foster Parents"
Community Health and Counseling Services is pleased to offer a training series specifically geared to Foster Parents.

Please call Susan McDonald at 947-3066 to register.

  • September 12th, Tues. Ethical Considerations if Foster Parent
    CHCS Trainer Argenta Jeffery, LCSW

  • November 8th, Wed. Overcoming the Wear and Tear of Foster Parenting
    CHCS Trainer Argenta Jeffery, LCSW

Location: Community Health & Counseling Services
42 Cedar Street, Bangor
Time: 5:30 — 7:30 PM

On August 29, 2005, a devastating hurricane hit our Gulf States. Many families, individuals, and organizations in Maine were able to reach out and help. Many families in Louisiana, Mississippi and Texas were ever thankful of our help. Unfortunately, many families continue to struggle. Families are facing the reality that they simply do not have the resources to repair their homes and to get back some normalcy in their lives. Some of the adrenaline that has kept families going is starting to diminish and many children and families are fragile. Our foster and adoptive families are among those families still trying to gain order and control over their lives and give the children in their care back some of the stability that was taken away.

The National Foster Parent Association (NFPA) worked collaboratively with the US Department of Children and Families, specifically the Collaboration to AdoptUsKids and the Freddie Mac foundation, a major founder of relief efforts, to support families in need.

Now AdoptUsKids would like to do what it does best, support foster and adoptive families as they help each other. A request is being made to Maine families who might want to reach out and support foster and adoptive families affected by the 2005 hurricanes, to consider making a family to family connection – one family helping another. Families in need have been identified by NFPA and AdoptUsKids and if a Maine family is interested in helping just one family, they may contact Kate Kirkpatrick kkirkpatrick@adoptuskids.org or (717) 545-5251 who will coordinate this effort.

Examples of things still needed:

  • Construction Supplies
  • Windows
  • Beds and Linen
  • Mattresses
  • Clothing
  • School Supplies
  • Fire Extinguishers
  • Smoke Detectors

Thanks to all of you who care.

Kate Kirkpatrick, BSW
National Campaign and Fulfillment Assistant
The Collaboration to AdoptUsKids
8015 Corporate Drive Suite C
Baltimore, MD 21236
kkirkpatrick@adoptuskids.org
Direct phone: (717) 545-5251
Office phone: (888) 200-4005
Fax: (717) 545-5251
Please call prior to faxing.

AFFM Recycles

AFFM has become the recipient of several items of baby furniture. Items are in wonderful condition and meet safety requirements. They include, 2 standard cribs, a co-sleeping crib, and a pack and play crib, a potty-chair and an infant carrier. Also available is a delightful and rather large infant amusement and activity seat. If you can put any of these items to use, please call 1-800-833-9786. It is hoped that, whoever acquires the items will share them with another adoptive, foster or kinship provider when the child has outgrown them.

FAMILY TIES the Newsletter of Adoptive & Foster Families of Maine, Inc.

Published with support from : the Maine Dept. of Human Services

Please direct comments to:
Editor, Family Ties
Adoptive & Foster Families of Maine
294 Center Street, Unit 1
Old Town, ME 04468.

Or click here to fill out our web form.

Two Sides To Every Story

If I was a grown-up.....
I could stay up as late as I wanted.
And I wouldn't have to eat spinach.
And I wouldn't have to take a bath.
And I wouldn't have to brush my teeth.
And I wouldn't have to take out the garbage.
If I was a grown-up.


All right....fair's fair:
I am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an adult.
I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities of an 8 year old again.
I want to go to McDonald's and think that it's a four star restaurant.
I want to sail sticks across a fresh mud puddle. . .
. . . . .and make ripples with rocks.
I want to think M&M's are better than money because you can eat them.
I want to lie under a big tree and run a lemonade stand with my friends on a hot summer's day.


If I was a grown-up.....
I could eat ice-cream for dinner.
I could stay up late and watch TV.
I could have my own pony.
And I could keep him in my bedroom.
If I was a grown-up.


I want to return to a time when life was simple.
When all you knew was colors, multiplication tables, and nursery rhymes, but that didn't bother you, because you didn't know what you didn't know and you didn't care.
All you knew was to be happy because you were blissfully unaware of all the things that should make you worried or upset.
I want to think the world is fair. That everyone is honest and good. I want to believe that anything is possible.
I want to be oblivious to the complexities of life and be overly excited by the little things again.
I want to live simple again.
I don't want my day to consist of computer crashes, mountains of paperwork, depressing news...
...how to survive more days in the month than there is money in the bank, doctor bills, gossip.....
...illness and loss of loved ones.
I want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, justice, a kind word, truth, peace, dreams, love, the imagination, mankind, and making angels in the snow.

If I was a grown-up...
I couldn't be a little kid.

If I'm a little kid
I don't have to be grown-up.

So....here's my checkbook, my wallet, my car-keys, my credit cards and my 401K statements. I am officially resigning from adulthood.
But wait....you can't do that.... You're the grown-up....
And if you want to discuss this further, you'll have to catch me first, 'cause....
Tag! You're it!
Maybe... I should stay a kid....
For just a little while longer......

 

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Phone: 800-833-9786 or 207-827-2331 Fax: 207-827-1974 Email: info@affm.net

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